Dear Abby: My husband works overseas for an oil manipulation company 20 days away from the month. He takes 10 days rest. When he returns home, we can have two days of quality time together. The rest of his time he spends on his phone outside.
When he recently did a spinal operation, he allegedly returned home to testify to me. My doctor gives instructions to follow after surgery. The first was for him to observe me for 24 hours to warn of any complications. Well, after a few hours, he left me alone so he could spend time with his friends! I was sleeping when he left and when I woke up, I had pain.
When I called him and asked him where he was, he, as usual, was upset and said, “I can’t talk to my friends time?” I replied, “No problem” and I pointed on the phone. He returned two hours later, and we discussed it, but he left home again. I don’t know how to join her without causing problems. What should I do? Am I wrong? – The man of the detached husband
Dear woman: You have no mistake. What you need to do now is to take some time and appreciate the relationships you have with your husband. From what you wrote, you are both spending most of your time living as single people.
Your husband is not clear the nourishing type, and it would be interesting to know how he would react if the situation would go back and you would have overlooked to associate with your friends. I will not use the words to come to mind to describe the “your best half”, but, honestly, I think you could have done better in the spouse’s department. You have my sympathy.
Dear Abby: I’m a 59-year-old man. I’ve been single since my wife left me. I have tried to go back to some of my financial and emotional since divorce. I agreed to the terms without a lawyer. I agreed to accept a small sum so that she could buy me from the house we owned for 23 years. I will finally be, and, at one point, I will go back to the meeting easily.
Because I have a chronic cough, I was assigned a specialized nurse practice that I will call “Susan”. She is good and professional and, after her medical mask, she seems to be quite beautiful. It also seems to be in the early 1930s. I understand professional labels and, of course, age inequality. Simply asking – what is your advice? – Movement to Massachusetts
Dear continuing further: I am sorry that you did not mention how long it has passed since you and your ex-wife were given divorce. Because you have yet started the meeting, the only woman you have had a chance to get to know is this guardian, whose task is to be kind and professional.
Because you are now interested in female associations, set the word and start meeting women. If you make any progress in the Susan, it can no longer feel comfortable treating you, so I do not recommend it.
Dear Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.dearabby.com or yes Box 69440, Los Angeles, Ca 90069.
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