Dear Abby: My 40-year-old daughter is in injections for weight loss and a sugar-free diet. I offered her to bake her a sugar -free cheescake, and she agreed, but she asked me to make a “testing” cake three days ago. I explain that the cake has a long preparation process, including a very slow baking in a water bath and 12 hours cold. I suggested that she wait, but she insisted, so I do it early. She cut off a slice of her and shouted at how brilliant she enjoyed.
Three days later, I baked and decorated a carrot cake to use as its “official” birthday cake, as the sugar -free cake was cut and would not look beautiful in the picture. (Carrots are her children’s favorite.) I waited for everyone in a expense restaurant, giving her French perfume and a weekly departure.
When we return from dinner, my angry daughter said, “Get here so we can cut this stupid cake, which I can’t eat!” I was shocked and confused. She said I shouldn’t have made a spicy cake that discs, but I stated that she also had sugar -free cake. Apparently, she had been waiting for me to bake a second cheescake without sugar. I chewed it to be ungrateful. Was I wrong? – Untreated in California
Darling UNDERSTANDED: I was under the impression that the shots for losing weight inhibited someone’s appetite for sweets. Your daughter seems to have a sweetened sweet tooth, without sugar or not. What she was nice was two cheescakes than one. Her attitude is right and ungrateful, and she must be ashamed of her. I wish her fortune to keep away from the weight she loses, because her chances are excellent with that attitude.
Dear Abby: I became friends with “inside” a few years ago. We enjoy each other’s friendship and have a lot of common interest. My problem is that one year in our friendship, she believed she had a son in prison for a crime that I can’t forget morally. Because he was in prison, I did not see a problem with continuing our friendship.
Inside you simply let me know her son will be released from prison within months and live with him. She will want me to meet her and has shown that she wants him to participate in some of the activities we have participated in.
How can I say inside that I don’t want to do anything with her son, but I would like to continue our friendship? Is this even possible? – Friend I inside in Midwest
Dear friend I inside: After the boy inside is released and lived with him, rely on the fact that they will join the hip unless (or up) he can find a place of his. It can change the dynamics of your relationship unless it is a fur. By telling what you want to exclude her son from the activities you both enjoyed together you will not have a good time, no matter how diplomatic you phrase it, and this can pronounce the end of friendship. If you start withdrawing now, this can arouse an honest conversation.
Dear Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.dearabby.com or yes Box 69440, Los Angeles, Ca 90069.
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