First, they disappear in the department dep.
Then, months later, they are again in your DMS – like nothing has ever happened.
Welcome to the crazy world of “signature” – a toxic, reappearing tendency, where ghosters appear from your past, acting like their silence on the radio in the south was not Biggie.
“They want someone to talk to him and make them feel good about themselves,” Gigi Engle, certified sex coach and author of “All F*cking mistakes: a guide to sex, love and life,” said about men’s health.
“It is very impossible that this is because this person actually cares about you.”
They are not exactly rare. Submarines – also known as “Data Zombie” – usually ghost without explanation, just to boomerang again in your life as nothing went wrong.
Think: “Hey, stranger” six months after you have been crying in your Uber house.
“People can choose to reappear for many reasons, but more often than not, it’s out of uncertainty or boredom,” Engle said.
Worse, they never accept their act of extinction – no forgiveness, no closure – just an upset illusion that the last months of your life did not happen.
According to Dr. Wendy Walsh, Ph.D., a professor of psychology and relationship expert at dating.com, is not only unclear – is prehistoric.
“Evolutionary speaking, having a spare material” is a very common strategy of human life, “she told Purewow.
“Submarines often want intimacy, but they are terrified of the weakness she seeks,” she explained.
“A submariner wants to put someone in the back burn so they can approach them later when they feel lonely.”
However, experts warn: Do not bite when they bread.
“You’ve already grieved them for a while; just let them go and go on,” Engle advised.
“If someone is actually in you, they don’t share anywhere.”
The subject joins a long list of strange and brutal appointment behaviors that swim around the apps of app, love-bomb, fizzing and, most recently, “shallow”.
As the post previously reported, the “shallow” may sound like a harmless beach activity, but it is a growing sexual trend that includes entertainment “utercours” entertainment – and, yes, it is as true as being haunted by your former unavailable.
The brand of sex wellness Lelo even listed it as one of the highest sex trends of 2024.
In fact, a 2021 study of more than 4,000 women – from Indiana University and the OMGYES intimacy site – found that nearly 84% of American women found increased pleasure from this intimate form of stimulation.
While some are exploring shallow waters, others are deeply divided into submarine -infected territory and many are using technology to navigate both.
“Important is important that anyone who has questions about sex and pleasure can get answers from reliable sources,” said Verena Singmann, spokeswoman for We-Vibe sex toys.
“Technology can be a useful tool when it comes to sex and pleasure, but he does not always know better when it comes to our sexual health and well -being.”
Bottom Line: When a former flame that suddenly fantasized you revisits as if they are stirring in their reconstruction, treat them like the ship they are.
They did not just become “busy”.
They got bored and experts say you deserve better than being someone’s B plan with Wi-Fi.
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