Dear Abby: My high school grip wants me to leave my husband for – 30 years later

Dear Abby: I’m a 48-year-old woman. When I was 17, I was associated with this guy who was part of my group of friends. I knew he had a press for me, so I decided to have sex with him in his car. That would say nothing to me, but everything about it.

He has tried to reach me over the years. If I were married, he was single. After my first husband died, I met him briefly. I think I shouldn’t have done it. I asked him if he wanted to go out, but he was married. (His marriage did not last long.) Then he was upset that I met a wonderful man and was meeting.

I and that wonderful man are now married, and my old high school relationship is looking and upset. He is declaring his love for me and insisting that I leave my husband for him. I’m not going to do it. Is the fact that he is still in love with me after 30 years of romantic or upset? – Got stories in Texas

Dear got stories: It seems that your old high school relationship has not grown exciting since those days. What is happening in his head is not romantic; Is disrespectful. His unwillingness or inability to move forward in his life is somewhat upset. Say that when you tell them it leaves you and your husband bothers you and continue with his life. After that, if necessary, block it.

Dear Abby: My son and bride had their first child’s action three months. This was the first nephew on both sides. Her mother stayed with her for two weeks after Caesarean birth. I have no problem with that.

My willing is, my son told me I had to leave when they and the baby returned home from the hospital. Keep in mind, I live 6 1/2 hours away. I fought her to take at least three days when they returned home. Then he said I had to leave, but he never told his father -in -law to leave. Also, in the days I stayed, they asked me to get a motel while her parents stayed with them. I was only forced to go through the day.

When I told my son, my feelings were hurt, he said I was a queen of drama. I respected everything they asked for. I just want to know if I was wrong about sharing my feelings or I should have stayed calm. It has caused friction between us now. – Second class in Tennesses

Dear second class: This situation is not about you. It is a whole new child and adaptation to parents. You can come very strong and wait a lot when you said what you did. Your bride was recovering from surgery after her first child and she needed it Mother, Not her mother -in -law. Her father was probably part of the package deal. This is not a competition, and if you make it one, you will become even less welcome than now.

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