Dear Abby: I found that, behind my back, my best friend has (secretly) been the growing hair for the past year. He knows I have been bald for many years. Although I have accepted my follicular destiny, he knows that I constantly seek myself in inattentive in my life.
What worries me is that he did not share the information as I mentioned that I was thinking of trying Rogaine. This is when he told me he used a similar product for the past year and seems to be working. He even outside his baseball cap (which he has dressed in a year) to show me modest results. I suspect he would have shared this if I had not raised the subject.
I feel deeply added by his secrecy, and I do not see it as such a private matter that should have been hidden. I understand that he may have felt ashamed when he admitted that he worried him and that he was taking steps to address the issue.
What is the rule of labeling in circumstances? Should a person share self-unstable methods that are modest successful with a close friend who would clearly benefit from information? – Impaired in Pennsylvania
Dear Shafted: There is no rule of courtesy that dictates anyone MUST Share this kind of information. The closer you might think you are with this friend, try to remember that not everyone is pleased to talk about the medical interventions they use for themselves. This includes plastic surgery, weight loss medication and bald cures. Your friend was good to mention that he used a product similar to what you are thinking, but he was not needed to do so.
Dear Abby: I recently separated from my wife and developed feelings for someone new, “Mary”. However, Mary has mentioned that she is currently meeting someone. Despite this, we talk all day and have spent time together, and she always seems to enjoy our conversations and exits.
I’ve expressed my feelings, but instead of saying I’m in the “friend area”, she simply repeats that she sees someone. I’m confused and unsure of what to do. I have tried myelf distance, but it continues to reach, and our conversations get again. Should I go back and continue, or continue to engage with him while remaining respectable? – Baffled in California
Dear Nagging: Tell Maria you like it very much, but you are looking for someone to have a romantic relationship with her, that’s why you will withdraw for a while. Suggest that if her relationship doesn’t work, she should call you, and maybe you can work something if you don’t see anyone. Then proceed.
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