Dear Abby: Should I continue to meet a man I don’t like because he will pay for the education of my children’s college?

Dear Abby: I’m divorced by my ex-husband, “Cliff”, for a year and a half. My almost adult kids live with me. They rarely see their father. Our divorce was relatively painless, but the custody battle was prolonged, and most of my savings were drained in the process. Cliff pays children’s support, but I’m still fighting financially to gather two growing teenagers, and I’m worried about those who go to college.

A few months ago, I reached out again with a childhood friend I would call “Rob”. We have rediscovered our friendship and we often see each other. He recently expressed interest in a romantic relationship. Abby, I’m still in love with my ex-husband! It wasn’t my choice to split, and other slave is very sweet, I don’t feel comfortable moving so fast. However, he has a high salary job, and when we occasionally go out for dinner, he always pays the bill. I am afraid that I will not be able to cope with my children’s college without its financial support.

I have been torn between my love for my children and my constant love for my ex-husband. Should I follow this connection even though I don’t feel the same? – Angusied in Albuquerque

Anguified dear: Tell the slave that you are still not over your divorce, and while you like it and enjoy its company, you are not ready for a romantic relationship. The truth is, and he deserves it. As for the fact that you think you still love the man who loved divorce, it’s time to admit that marriage is a story. After you do this, you can find a future with more slave for your desire.

Dear Abby: I’m someone who calls friends but they never call again. When I call, they are happy to hear from me, the conversations are alive and fun, and friends say they love him when I call. I don’t call often, and I don’t think I’m making a concern of myself. However, as I said, they Don’t be called.

I can realize that I don’t hear from younger friends, but I go back not listening from what I have had all my life. I could have died, and they couldn’t worry about finding out if I am eight or get an updating in my life. I know I have to remove and continue, but I can’t. I need help with this. These are people with whom I have never had a cross word. Something – can be a future holiday – reminds me of them and I want to make contacts. Why do people do this to people who say they want and care? – Explained in Florida

Dear confused: People because that way because they are stressed, busy or confused. Most of the time, it’s not personal. Not everyone is a “caller” like you. If you want to maintain these relationships, you should be prepared to make the call. I am not saying this to be judgmental or to make excuses for them; Just just a fact of life.

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