It’s enough.
Beware of red flags when meeting is one thing – but now some dates of the digital era are saving themselves from a future heart stroke by cutting out the potential researchers for what some may consider very small things.
“Their theory” is a new trend circulating on social media, where people are ruining things with their lover if that person cannot meet their “small needs”.
Their process of thinking is that if they are this way early, things will only deteriorate in line.
Which, in theory, is a good opinion of having.
However, are they some very delightful?
“Last year I was seeing someone I liked very much and interrupted because he didn’t want a safe flight,” the Creator of Contents @hephatty admitted to a Viral Tiktok video.
“One great thing for me is consideration and general care.
Based on thousands of comments in this video, this content creator is not the only one who takes this approach when he meets.
“He texted photos of cookies his mature mother for Christmas. Then came to my house the next day without a single cookie. Bye,” one commenter wrote.
“He didn’t want me happy birthday,” read another comment with an increased scissors emoji to show that she cut this guy immediately after ignoring her birthday.
Another person shared this doosy: “He made himself a coffee in his kitchen just in front of me and didn’t make me one or even offer.”
“Nah, if he is not stable.
“I stopped him when he did not make sure I got home safe after our date because my future husband would never do,” someone else wrote.
It is important to have high standards for yourself, especially in the discouraging world of today’s meeting, however, this zero tolerance mentality can be causing more harm than well.
“This [cut them off] The theory is affecting people who are afraid to get another abusive relationship. They do not want to hurt again, so they interrupt the moment they see a hint of something because of this fear, “explain Angelika Koch, a relationship and expert in Time.
“What they have to keep in mind is that their perspective can change with an active and healthy community and what seems to be a red flag may not be at all, it can simply be a moment of judgment or misunderstanding.”
Koch said having a zero approach to the meeting is unrealistic. “Everyone has things they have to work and work for. There should always be a zero tolerance for abuse, but not for mistakes. Everyone makes them.”
If you see any behavior you are not very interested, Koch said “Reflect how the action affected you before you respond to it. “
“Once you have reflected, ask your partner’s questions to make sure you clearly understand their side of what happened. Once you know their side, explain how their actions influenced you and what you need from them moving forward,” she added.
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