Dear Abby: I asked my friend for free shelter for her son’s marriage – now she fantasized me

Dear Abby: My best friend “Carla” and I haven’t talked for a few years, which breaks my heart. Her son was getting married. The dress was dress for the evening cocktail. The place was an hour and a half from the place where I live. I don’t drive. At that time, I had financial difficulties and was worried about clothing and transportation to the country.

I advised Carla that I had no way of going to the wedding and Uber at the scene would cost more than $ 200. I hoped I could ride with it. The family had rooms in the hotel where weddings were being held. I hoped she offered to be able to go with her and stay with her at the hotel. She didn’t offer, so I was not able to attend.

Carla has not returned my calls and since then he has not spoken to me. We were close friends for 25 years. What has since left the state. I miss you terribly. After all this time, would it be wrong to contact him again, or should I let him go? I’m upset about the situation for years. I would like your opinion. – Missing my friend in California

Dear Missing: The wedding can be a complicated issue, and it is likely that Carla was stressed and distracted due to the number of guards and all activities related to the wedding at the hotel. Waiting for her to provide you with transport and share her room with you could have been rated as shrewd.

If you want to listen to its side of this and gain a closure, in all ways, achieve. But because now you are so distant geographically, so don’t expect to direct the relationships you have had with it.

Dear Abby: I’m married for 44 years, and we have a married son and a nephew. My husband and I approached our son and our bride five years ago. One or twice a year, my husband reminds me that I “ruined his life” forcing him to get closer to our nephew. Moreover, he doesn’t like our son’s mother -in -law, something that made me clear. He does not want to attend the holiday dinners if the mother -in -law is there. (Fortunately, our bride is not aware that he does not remove her mother.)

I am tired of worrying if he will participate in our nephew’s sports activities or events if the other grandmother is there. At this point, I am actually considering divorce, so I want to be so miserable. Anydo advice would be appreciated. – Tired in Florida

Dear Tired: If you have not hogged your husband, he must have agreed to approach your son and his family. Is it the only reason he is miserable this does not like his mother to go out, or is he that he is separated from his friends? If it’s the first, go without your husband to your brilliant events and let him stay at home. If it is more than that, it may be better for him to return to the community in which he was more comfortable.

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